Category Issue 71

Point #71: Volunteering as a Corporate Sponson – Badur Ramji

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Owner of PunkMedics

“From what we get, we can make a living; what we give, however, makes a life.” —Arthur Ashe

I sometimes joke that I am not only the oldest apprentice but have also had the longest piercing apprenticeship in the industry. Though I’ve been a part of the modification community for a very long time, I have never officially become a piercer. Instead I have used my love of body modifications, learning, and research to improve both my knowledge and the products I have developed specifically for our industry. After ten years of developing aftercare products I can still say I am #foreverlearning.

My first Conference was in 2006 and, like most first timers, I was amazed at how large and organized the modification community was. That year I took some classes, slept very little, and spent a lot of time catching up with old friends I had originally met through BME. I arrived as a person wanting to build relationships and network so I could better market my products to the industry.

In 2009 I became a corporate sponsor of the APP. Sponsorship is a great opportunity for businesses trying to break into the market. However, for me it was a way to become further involved with the Association and show my support. I continued to attend Conference and by doing so learned more about the APP as an association. I also became better acquainted with its dedicated staff, the Board, and the volunteers that were involved in making everything work.

I saw our community and Conference evolve as my company and products evolved. When I became a vendor and began to interact with the volunteers, I saw so many people dedicated to bettering our community. In 2012 I took a break from being a vendor and instead signed up as a volunteer. I realized that this would be a wonderful opportunity to give back and become even more involved. I did not yet realize how much I would get from that experience. In 2013 I continued volunteering and retired from being a direct vendor. I wanted to give back to the volunteers that worked hard and thank them for helping.

The goal has always been to support the Association, help it grow, be a part of the community I love, get involved, and help others see the success I have seen. I’ve always wanted to give back, but feel that I have gotten more than I’ve given by volunteering. I’ve gained new skills and knowledge about the industry, but also about what is wanted from me as a business. I found that giving others your time brings you interesting and challenging opportunities that might not come along otherwise. I’ve developed and grown as a person. Volunteering has forced me to interact with others, getting me out of my introverted bubble and giving me a new perspective. I’ve gained a better understanding of the body modification community and what drives us to be who we are. The passion this community has constantly helps me grow and reminds me why I continue to stay involved. Most importantly volunteering and sponsoring Conference has allowed me to make significant and positive change in people’s lives.

The APP and the body modification community have supported me for ten years. I hope I can spend the next ten years supporting them by continuing to volunteer and finding new ways to give back each year. I hope that on the 30th anniversary I can look back and see I’ve had a positive influence on the community and have helped it grow.

“No one who achieves success does so without acknowledging the help of others. The wise and confident acknowledge this help with gratitude.” —Author Unknown

Point #71: Service – Caitlin McDiarmid

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Caitlin McDiarmid
APP Administrator

“I slept and dreamt that life was joy. I awoke and saw that life was service. I acted and behold, service was joy.” — Rabindranath Tagore

One of the greatest gifts given to me over the last 13 years has been the gift of mentoring. There’s something about having a grown man or woman, someone who isn’t your own child or student, tell you that you were instrumental in them learning, growing, changing, or reaching a new goal. I wasn’t good at it when I started with the APP. I was more than bad at it. But I continued just the same, tried to learn from my own mentor, Paul King; and tried to work on myself. I’m still not perfect, but the work and success of the volunteers continues to reflect my efforts back to me.

In 2007, at an emotionally laden Banquet Dinner, I talked about the transformative power of service. Back then I didn’t write down my speeches in advance so those exact words are lost. I know I spoke too long – we all did that year. But I wanted to try and get across to the audience – to our Attendees – the joys of service. The APP after all relies on volunteers from the top down.

Our Board Members are volunteers; our committee members are volunteers; our conference workers are volunteers (some minimally compensated). There are few of us who are compensated for certain jobs, but generally go far above the call of duty and are still volunteers for the Association.

From approximately 20 conference volunteers in 2003 (that includes the Board who worked the merch booth and classroom doors that year) to approximately 70 in 2015. As the Conference has grown our team dynamic has developed. As the fun we all were having showed our volunteer group has expanded.

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The community of conference volunteers have become more than friends; they have become a family. Through service and working alongside each other we have formed bonds, which means that we send each other letters (real letters!) and cookies in the mail. We reach out to each other when we are going through rough times or experiencing great joys. We share opportunities in the industry – who’s hiring/who’s not. We celebrate when another volunteer becomes a Member and when a new volunteer joins the group. Through service to the organization and the Conference I’ve watched these young women and men grow up, mature, have relationships, change relationships, get jobs, travel, open shops, serve as committee members, and even as Board Members.

Many of the conference volunteers also serve in other capacities for the Association and the event. They often volunteer in their communities as well. Service brings a joy to life that I don’t think can be found elsewhere. This year I am encouraging the most experienced volunteers to start mentoring the newer volunteers. They have earned their place in this process. It is the next step of service work.

I watch every year as a group of volunteers, all decidedly different from one another, interact and work together on a variety of tasks and come out the other side friends and colleagues. It’s a magical process and by the end we are all in tears saying our goodbyes. I’ve watched people from a variety of religious backgrounds, genders, sexual orientations, economic levels, cultures, piercing skill level, anxiety levels, social abilities, and ages – all let things which could have caused barriers become bridges.

I have never had a volunteer walk away from the experience unchanged. Service is transformative. Attending the Conference is transformative. Combine the two and it’s amazing.

We shouldn’t get to have all the fun. While our team has grown over the years, we are always looking for new volunteers. If you can’t volunteer during Conference, think about doing so in your community; whether as a piercer educating students in schools about safe piercing or as a food shelf worker. Do something, get involved for the greater good. Absolutely positively – everyone can make a difference.APP Conference Volunteers 2014

Point #71: The Mentor Team

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Outreach Coordinator

“When I first started attending Conference I was pretty intimidated. It was a conference full of strangers, and worse yet it was strangers who probably knew more than me. Now that I’ve attended Conference numerous times I know that people just genuinely want to share and learn together, so now I feel relaxed among my peers. I started the mentor program as a way to show new attendees early on that we are all part of the same team. Pair new people with ones who started out just as nervous, and help them enjoy the week a little easier.” —Ryan Ouellette, Founder of the Mentor Program

“I remember my first Conference and it was overwhelming. I was lucky to have some friends help me get along. Now that I have been to a few Conferences, I am happy to be that friend. It’s a ‘pay it forward’ kind of thing and I hope people who have benefitted from the program in the past consider helping out someone who might be wearing their old shoes.” —April Thomas, mentor team 2015

Association of Professional Piercers Conference & Exposition 2014 - Mentor Program
Association of Professional Piercers Conference & Exposition 2014 – Mentor Program

The Mentor Program is an amazing system started by Ryan Ouellette. We hope that we are building small Conference families that can work together as a group and lean on each other for support. We have seen great progress and have had wonderful feedback. We look forward to continuing this program for many years to come.

Is this your first year attending the APP Conference and Exposition? Do you have questions that you would like answered? Do you need help selecting your classes, or would you simply like to have a friend before you get to Vegas? The APP mentor program is here to help! If you are a first or second year attendee and would like some assistance from a mentor chosen specifically for you, please email mentor@safepiercing.org with your name, telephone number, and contact email address and MENTEE in the subject line. There is no deadline for signup, but the earlier you enroll the more you will get out of the program. We are excited that you are coming this year and cannot wait to meet you!

Our mentors are experienced conference goers that want to ensure that the new faces at Conference have the best time possible. They are there to answer questions, remind you to drink your water and get some sleep. They are also there to support if you become overwhelmed, need a little reassurance or just advice on where to get the best chicken and waffles or vegan donuts. We use information collected to best match mentors with mentees based on similar interests, areas of knowledge, and similar schedule needs. Our goal is create a mentor family. We do this by grouping three or four mentees to a mentor based on a survey we conduct. This group can then use each other for support, reference, and a stepping stone to Conference as a whole.

We sincerely want each and every one of our new attendees to get the most out of Conference and hope the support that the mentor program offers makes this possible.

If you have any questions about the mentor program, becoming a mentor, or being a mentee at Conference, please do not hesitate to contact anyone on the mentor team. The 2015 Mentor Team consists of Ash Misako, April Thomas, Billy Wood, and Kendra Jane.

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“I felt so honoured to become part of this program because I remember my first Conference. I was terrified. I latched on to someone that I considered a mentor and didn’t leave their side. I hope that anyone coming for the first time has the opportunity to have someone near them that is looking out for them. No one should feel like an outsider their first year.” —Ash Misako, Outreach Coordinator

Point #71: Survival Tips for Conference

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Marina Pecorino
Managing Editor of Content & Statistics

 

The APP Board of Directors and Administrator, along with the Conference Staff, Volunteers and Mentors want you to have an exceptional experience. If there are any questions we can answer or concerns we can address, please do not hesitate to contact us.

What to bring to Conference:
Lip and skin moisturizers— Bring multiples, so you have something with you at all times. Even if you don’t usually need these items, you will in Las Vegas. It’s dry in the desert and even drier in the hotel.
Comfy shoes with pain relief insoles—There may be times when you want relief from your nice shoes. We suggest bringing multiple pairs so the sore spots are in different places. You will log a lot of miles in Vegas, especially with our split floorplan this year.
Medications and vitamins—If you generally have need for these types of items, pain relievers, allergy pills, and the like can make a world of difference when you need it most. Make sure to bring enough of these to get you through the week and a couple of extra days just in case. Taking vitamins in advance of Conference will improve your chances of staying healthy during Conference, so don’t delay!
Water bottle—Snazzy APP bottles are available for purchase at the merch booth! Staying hydrated is key to having a good experience; Las Vegas is a desert. Water dispensers are provided throughout the conference area, please use them!
Deodorant—If you are a wearer of such things, this is the time to use it. Conference is busy with long days and lots of networking. Smelling good is a great step toward a great first impression.
Something to throw on when it gets cold—You’ll want to stay comfortable while attending classes and socializing. The hotel and casino can get especially cold in the wee hours.
Outfits aplenty—Bring enough outfits to get through the week and maybe a couple of extra. You will be experiencing some pretty long days with lots of activity. Some people find it necessary or more comfortable to change midday. You may also want different outfits for different activities: classes, networking meetups, exercise, special events, etc. Also, don’t forget that accidents happen, so it’s never a bad idea to have a spare in case of spills.
Formal wear and costumes—If you like dressing up for special events, or just in general, make sure to bring accessories. Banquet Dinner is a great place to strut your stuff and show off your style/sense of humor.
Swimsuit, sunblock, and sunglasses—You’ll want to look your best and stay protected while enjoying the hot tubs and pool. There may also be other occasions to escape the hotel into the great, bright outdoors. If your sunglasses are expensive, make sure to hold onto them!
Cell phone and charger—Especially during a week of networking, it’s important to stay connected. Plus, you’ll want to make use of the sweet new app to check your schedule, look at maps, and get updates! Don’t be surprised if your battery needs more charging than when you’re home.
Phone numbers—In case of emergencies or a misplaced phone, having a list of contacts in your wallet can be a lifesaver. Don’t forget to add some of your newfound conference besties to this list during the week.
Business cards and portfolio— This is a great place to network and share. You will meet a lot of people and business cards will help you keep in touch after Conference. Having a copy of your portfolio or photos on your laptop/phone ready to show can leave a lasting impression while networking.
Emergency funds/capabilities— You shouldn’t bring every credit card you have, but unexpected things may happen and it’s best to be prepared. Make sure to keep your emergency stash separate from your carrying money.
Personal comfort items—If you have a preference for certain things to make your day a little brighter—especially things you wouldn’t feel comfortable borrowing or may be difficult to find—bring them along. The hotel will provide you with towels, basic shampoo/soap, iron/ ironing board, and a hair dryer. Most of the time you can find basic, common items by visiting shops in and around the hotel, but they will likely be expensive and selection will be limited. If you are particular, don’t forget them.
Snacks—Things in Las Vegas can be expensive and eating between events, classes, and socializing isn’t always easy to fit into your schedule. Having a supply of on-the-go snacks that don’t require refrigeration or preparation can make your week less stressed. We have changed the schedule to accommodate more breaks, but sometimes there is just no time for a sit down meal.

Las Vegas can be a bit like the Bermuda Triangle. With all the activity and controlled chaos, it can be easy to lose track of stuff. If it will break your heart to lose it, leave it at home.

Point #71: President’s Corner – Brian Skellie

Brian Skellie headshot at 2014 APP conference by April BerardiBrian Skellie
APP President

In an organization comprised of exceptional participants who have gladly offered countless hours of work and traveled across the planet to share their ardor for safe body adornment, it is the privilege and great pleasure of the President each year to shine a light upon one who has exemplified our mission. To offer a special award in esteem of the outstanding contributions of this volunteer is equally to recognize the potential we all have to achieve the goals set forth by our Association.

In a field of iconoclasts, in which we must each be self reliant during our daily procedures, some of our fellow piercers have demonstrated proficiency at organizing and working together for the benefit of our community.

In a time where our colleagues have researched, debated, and negotiated fair regulations to respect and protect their fellow piercers and body artists, there are certain among us who excel at diplomacy and bringing forward our purpose. These individuals are honoured with the President’s award. We have showcased the winners of this award in several previous issues of The Point, starting with Issue 26 in 2003 (pg 3-5) as well as in 2009 with Issue 48 (pg 2-3).

Since 2009, when the sitting president James Weber presented to Raelyn Gallina, we have had five new honorees, including yours truly in 2014.
2010 Danny Yerna, presented by Jim Weber
2011 Allen Falkner, presented by Jim Weber
2012 Steve Joyner, presented by Elayne Angel
2013 Sarah Wooten, presented by Elayne Angel
2014 Brian Skellie, presented by Elayne Angel

Jack Yount Memorial Certificate of RecognitionBefore the existence of the President’s award, the Jack Yount Memorial Certificate of Recognition for Promoting Excellence in Professional Piercing was dedicated to Michaela Grey, Founder of the APP, as a special award chosen by the appointed Board in 1998. This can be recalled as a time when people who had worked alongside her felt a need to show respect for her efforts in coalescing the Association, and as a nod to the gentle persuasion towards exploration and excellence Jack Yount had shared with us.

“He passed away in Hospital in Copenhagen Denmark on July 15, 1995 at the age of 68.”

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Michaela Grey was again recognized in 2005 with a special Lifetime Achievement award from a subsequent APP Board, for her contributions to our industry.

Jim Ward and Michaela Grey at the 2005 APP Awards ceremony
Jim Ward and Michaela Grey at the 2005 APP Awards ceremony

Point #71: From the Editor – Kendra Jane Berndt

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Managing Editor of Content & Archives

 

“We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.” —Winston Churchill

In our last issue we looked at where the APP came from and the trends we have seen over the past 20 years. In this issue we continue to celebrate this milestone by honouring some of the piercers and their accompanying volunteer work that helped grow the APP and the body piercing industry in a responsible and educated manner to what it is today.

al·tru·ism ‘altroō,izәm/ noun noun: altruism
1. the belief in or practice of disinterested and selfless concern for the well-being of others.
2. “some may choose to work with vulnerable elderly people out of altruism”
• Zoology
• behavior of an animal that benefits another at its own expense.

The idea of altruism or selflessness is the principle or practice of concern for the welfare of others. For many cultures it is the foundation for traditional viewpoints and it makes up core aspects of various religious traditions and secular worldviews. The concept of putting others before oneself has had a long history in philosophical and ethical thought, being the basis for more than one or two scientific debates. The term itself was originally coined in the 19th century by the sociologist and philosopher of science, Auguste Comte, and is often a major topic of debate for psychologists, evolutionary biologists, and ethologists.

Before I was a piercer I was a scientist. I studied animal biology, meaning I studied the ideas and concepts of altruism at great length. I was fascinated by the science behind the idea of giving. If we look at altruism in the context of biological organisms, it can be defined as an individual performing an action which is at a cost to themselves (e.g., pleasure and quality of life, time, probability of survival or reproduction), but benefits, either directly or indirectly, another third-party individual, without the expectation of reciprocity or compensation for that action. However, there have been many studies which have observed the effects of volunteerism (as a form of altruism) on happiness and health. These studies have consistently found a strong connection between volunteerism and a person’s well being and state of mind.

This means that when we give our time and our knowledge, we feel better and there is a good chance we are happier than if we didn’t volunteer. This will be my fifth Conference. I have been a volunteer since my first, both for Conference and the APP as a whole. These experiences have indeed made my life better! I was awarded the Al D. Scholarship in 2010 (we will talk more about Al D. further into this issue); it was here that I met an entire group of truly altruistic people. People that give freely of their time, their resources, and so much more to better the piercing industry as a whole. This once-ayear opportunity to give back is an amazing boost to my well being. It is a chance for me to recharge, so much so I now volunteer year round. However, it is incredibly important to point out that I am merely a single nut or cog, a tiny piece of a much bigger machine. There are just too many people to name that all work towards a common goal and the betterment of our entire industry. Without the hundreds of hours that are devoted each year the APP would only be a fraction of what it is today.

I count the days until our Conference begins and I am able to give back to a community that has given me so much. I can feel the anticipation building in not only myself but in my colleagues and I honestly feel the buzz this year is bigger than ever. So, I will take this moment before the chaos and craziness that is Conference sets in to say thank you! Thank you, to each and every one of the volunteers that help this organization, our Conference, and our industry.

Point #71: From the Editor – Jim Ward

Jim Ward headshotJim Ward
Managing Editor of Design & Layout

 

“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it’s the only thing that has.” —Margaret Mead

Thinking back to the early days of the APP, I have to marvel at how far the organization has come, but what is really amazing is that it made it into existence at all.

When Modern Primitives hit the bookstores in 1989, body modification, and particularly body piercing, hit the big time. Studios began popping up overnight like fungi after a spring rain. Few, if any, of the owners had any actual training or experience, and the competition was fierce. Rivalries were intense. There was little common ground.

The following is from my book Running the Gauntlet: “In 1994 the State of California was poised to pass legislation (Assembly Bill 3787) that would regulate body piercing, tattooing, and permanent cosmetics. A handful of piercers from several studios began to network and strategize how best to assure that these forms of body modification were not outlawed. Those who met at the Gauntlet corporate office for those early meetings included Raelyn Gallina, several representatives from Body Manipulations, Nomad, and Primeval Body in L.A. Along with some of his students, including Idexa, Fakir also attended. The office was full. As the pending legislation grew closer to passing, a group got together and drove to Sacramento. Michaela spoke on behalf of the industry during one of the hearings for the bill. She also did a number of television interviews. The bill ultimately failed thanks to lobbying by the ear-piercing gun manufacturers. However, this did not end the threats to the industry, and the need for a professional organization to deal with them.”

The APP was the organization that sprang from this need. A handful of rivals managed to set aside their differences and come together for their common good. Even though there are still differences, the APP has been able to grow and thrive. When a group of people work together for the common good, it’s amazing what they can accomplish. Happy 20th Anniversary!

Point #71: From the Editor – Marina Pecorino

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Managing Editor of Content & Statistics

 

My first experience at Conference was in 2012 as a love volunteer. I waited until my fourth year as a piercer to attend. I was intimidated by the amount of knowledge available and concerned that my foundation was not yet firm enough to grasp it all. What a mistake. Looking back, I wish I had attended Conference as soon and as often as possible. The experience really has changed my life in ways that I can’t explain, most of which are not ways that I would have expected.

Being an introvert, I’m not fully at ease in situations involving a multitude of strangers. This had also been a deterrent when thinking about attending. In an attempt to force myself out of my shell during that first year, I asked Caitlin McDiarmid if there was anything I could do to help. That’s where it all began.

As a love volunteer, I had fewer structured responsibilities, but there was still plenty to be done and we all worked together to make it happen. In the weeks leading up to Conference, I became Facebook friends with many of the other volunteers as we helped Caitlin prepare. Thanks to modern technology, I had a bit of exposure to all the friendly faces from across the world I would soon meet. I began to feel a bit more connected with the community. Previously, I stayed on the outskirts and isolated, having the expectation that I wasn’t “cool enough” to take part. It’s almost funny how, within a community comprised largely of shy, awkward, weirdos, I felt like I was too shy, awkward, and weird.

The accepting atmosphere exuded by everyone at Conference quickly changed my mind. Don’t get me wrong, I still barely spoke during that entire week and spent most of my meals alone, but I was a lot more at ease than I ever expected to be. Having the structure and encouragement of the 2012 volunteer group was an incredible experience, and without this experience, my life would be in a drastically different place right now.APP Conference Volunteers 2012

My original intention when I asked to volunteer was to distract myself from my insecurities. Unexpectedly, I also gained vital experience, life-long friends, and a closer connection to an extraordinary organization and community. I am inspired by the people that join forces to make the Association of Professional Piercers what it is. The level of dedication I have witnessed in my relatively short time of involvement is incredible. The sense of fulfillment from volunteering and taking part in such a project, as we all collaborate to spread the safe piercing message, has forever changed me.

This year will mark my second conference attendance (unfortunately, life interfered during 2013 and 2014) and my fourth year as a volunteer. For a while now, I’ve been counting down the days until Conference. I am in the process of mentally preparing myself to be more outgoing and not miss out on all the amazing hugs and support that are so plentiful during that one week. If our paths cross, please don’t hesitate to say hello, especially if you’re a first year attendee! I also encourage new attendees to take full advantage of the mentor program, especially if you’re shy, awkward, and weird. This program is a great way to feel less alone and overwhelmed during a week filled with so many new faces, lessons, and experiences. And I hear that if you’re in search of the best chicken and waffles around, these amazing people can point you in the right direction.